To me love means loving someone for the sake of God which is the greatest of all love in this world.
Loving someone unconditionally has a great role and loving them even though their mistakes irritate you at times. The very smile for this purpose can calm the person down and sets the greatest example on how love can change the little moment and hence the world. When you love God, you love yourself because you will have confidence that that you were created just right which will then allow yourself to open up and love others. It’s not that prickly self-sacrifice, but it’s a mixture of compromise and being diplomatic.
The reason any person does not behave well to you can be from the external factors such as work and negative links. No matter how harsh the other person is, love can change that. Love does not merely exists in the form of intimate love, true love is being nice, not being rude, understanding, support, trust and much more. The very touch or smile can spread the love, it’s indeed epidemic. And in fact what you sow is what you get in love, you get back the love which you give, may or may not it be from the same person. But it doesn’t mean you should love someone to get love back. Having the least expectations is the best way in love because human mind expects a lot which is impossible to get in that limited period of time. Again, that does not mean sacrificing your dreams but it means having realistic ones and having faith, trust, hope and confidence in God that you will be alright!
Divine love is the mightiest of all love.
When you pray, meditate or in some fashion get closer to God, you will feel that love and know there is no reason to fight, be hateful or sad in life. And when you achieve that divinity in you, you will not complain of not having love in your life because you won’t be seeing it, you will be feeling it from a child’s smile, a touch of a hand, a pat on the shoulder, a simple glare, a passionate kiss, a dog’s cuddle, a child’s hug, little surprises -- priceless gifts of love.
And when you go to bed tired and exhausted, you will remember and cherish all moments you have had all day which a wide self smile on your face! Love is all that matters to me in life!
© 2010 Eternity Coach Alisha
-Acknowledgments-
I thank my husband and love my love for over seven years for making those years count, for standing by me through the most difficult and stressful times of my life, for being able to make to laugh when I cry and for understanding people and honor their views. This has enriched our lives together and the strong foundation and trust of love in my life. His capability to love is extremely different - a great inspiration is for me.
I thank my mother first in my family for being there for me when she was alive and teaching me to love with the best advices in life. I cherish her love for the whole family and how she kept the family together in the most difficult of times by making us laugh with jokes and sharing things. I can’t thank her enough because if I wrote a book about my life that too would not list out those things I cherish about her. Also, for being so nice, even though she is not with us now I remember her and glad she is with me in my heart and soul.
Also thank my family of a bunch of brothers and sisters for sharing the journey of my life with them and of course for having love for me, hugging and jumping over me like anything when I meet them, for enjoying my cooked dinners, my sis making tea for me, and I guess the list is endless here. Also my father for supporting the family who understood me after a long time, my teachers, my college mates, my neighbors, my friends, my in-laws, my co-workers especially here at Liveperson and I don’t even remember the people who have shared the love with me and gave me an opportunity to love.
